--- name: coaching-question-generator description: "Generates 45 situationally appropriate coaching questions for a specific people challenge, organized through the GROW model plus scenario-specific probes, with follow-up sequences, questions to avoid, and a suggested conversation flow. Use when preparing for a coaching conversation about underperformance, conflict, change resistance, career development, or manager capability." argument-hint: "[people-challenge] [role-context]" allowed-tools: ["Read"] --- # Coaching Question Generator ## Purpose Produce a ready-to-use set of open, non-leading coaching questions calibrated to a specific people challenge and relationship — structured through the GROW model and layered with scenario-specific probes — so an HR partner or people manager walks into a difficult conversation with the right questions instead of defaulting to advice-giving or avoidance. ## When to Use Invoke this skill when the user asks to: - Prepare for a coaching conversation about an underperforming employee - Get questions to help someone work through a conflict with a colleague or manager - Coach a team member who is resisting a change or restructure - Support a career development or growth conversation - Coach a manager on a capability or leadership gap - Build a question bank for a recurring coaching situation ## Inputs Required Before starting, collect: - **The people challenge**: What specifically is happening (underperformance, conflict, change resistance, career stall, manager capability, etc.) - **Who is being coached**: Role, seniority, and relationship to the coach (direct report, peer, someone else's report) - **What outcome the coach wants**: What "better" looks like after the conversation - **What's been tried**: Any prior conversations, feedback, or interventions - **Emotional temperature**: How sensitive or charged the situation is (routine / delicate / high-stakes) - **Coaching model preference**: GROW / OSKAR / CLEAR — default to GROW if unspecified - **Time available**: 15 min check-in / 30–45 min full session If the coaching model or time is missing, default to GROW and a 30–45 minute session, and note the assumption. ## Instructions ### Step 1: Frame the Coaching Stance Before generating questions, set the operating principle: the coach's job is to help the person think, not to deliver a verdict. Confirm the challenge is genuinely coachable (a skills/mindset/motivation gap) versus a matter requiring a directive conversation (misconduct, safety, non-negotiable policy). If it's the latter, flag it — coaching questions are the wrong tool for undebatable expectations. ### Step 2: Generate 45 Questions Across the GROW Model + Scenario Probes Generate every question fully written for this specific challenge and relationship — not generic templates. Label each with the intent it serves. **Goal — What does the person want? (8 questions)** Surface the person's own definition of success and what matters to them. - Draw out their picture of a good outcome, not the coach's - Include at least one question that separates the presenting problem from the deeper goal - Include one scaling question ("On a scale of 1–10...") **Reality — What's actually happening now? (10 questions)** Build a shared, honest view of the current situation without judgment. - Include questions that surface facts, patterns, and the person's own role in the situation - Include one question that gently checks their assumptions - Include one question inviting perspective-taking (how others might see it) **Options — What could the person do? (8 questions)** Expand the range of possibilities before narrowing. - Push for quantity of options before evaluating any - Include one question that removes a constraint ("If [obstacle] weren't a factor...") - Include one question drawing on their past success in a similar spot **Will / Way Forward — What will the person commit to? (7 questions)** Convert insight into a concrete, owned next step. - Include a specific-first-action question - Include a commitment-strength check and an accountability question - Include one that surfaces what support they need **Scenario-Specific Probes (12 questions)** Tailored to the exact challenge provided. Match the set to the situation: - *Underperformance*: questions distinguishing capability from motivation from clarity; questions surfacing blockers the person hasn't named - *Conflict*: questions inviting the other party's perspective, separating position from need, exploring what a repaired relationship enables - *Change resistance*: questions naming the loss underneath the resistance, surfacing what they'd need to feel confident, connecting the change to something they value - *Career development*: questions exploring energy vs. skill, expanding beyond the obvious next title, surfacing what's holding them back - *Manager capability*: questions shifting focus from the task to the team's experience, surfacing their model of what a good manager does ### Step 3: Build Follow-Up Sequences For 3 pivotal questions, show a 2–3 question follow-up chain — how to go deeper when the first answer is surface-level, defensive, or vague. Model the "and what else?" and "say more about that" moves. ### Step 4: List Questions to Avoid Provide 5 leading, judgmental, or closed questions specific to this scenario that undermine coaching — each paired with a reworded open version. Include the classic trap: "Why did you...?" (blame-triggering) reworked to "What was happening when...?" ### Step 5: Suggest a Conversation Flow Provide a suggested order and time allocation for the session, mapping which question sets to open with, when to move between GROW phases, and how to close on commitment. ## Output Format - **Structure**: GROW phases as labeled sections with numbered questions; separate sections for scenario probes, follow-up sequences, questions to avoid, and conversation flow - **Length**: 1,000–1,400 words - **Format**: Scannable — numbered question lists with brief intent labels, prose only for the flow and stance sections - **Sections**: Coaching stance note → Goal → Reality → Options → Will → Scenario-specific probes → Follow-up sequences → Questions to avoid → Suggested conversation flow - **Tone**: Calm, curious, non-directive — the language a skilled coach actually uses, not corporate HR jargon ## Quality Checklist Before delivering output, verify: - [ ] All 45 questions are present (count them: 8 + 10 + 8 + 7 + 12) - [ ] Every question is open (starts with what/how, not why/did/should) — except deliberate exceptions that are labeled - [ ] Questions are written for the specific person and challenge — no bracket placeholders or generic filler - [ ] Scenario-specific probes actually match the challenge provided - [ ] Follow-up sequences show a genuine deepening move, not a rephrase - [ ] Each "question to avoid" is paired with a working reworded version ## Notes - The most common failure in coaching conversations is smuggling advice inside a question ("Have you thought about just...?") — the generated set should model genuinely open inquiry - "And what else?" is the single most useful follow-up in coaching — it consistently surfaces the real answer after the rehearsed one - If the situation involves misconduct, legal risk, or a non-negotiable expectation, name it clearly: that requires a direct conversation, and coaching questions can follow only once the expectation is unambiguous - Scaling questions (1–10) are useful across every scenario because they turn abstract feelings into a workable starting point --- ## How to use this skill This file is a Claude Code skill in [Anthropic's standard format](https://docs.anthropic.com/en/docs/claude-code/skills) — markdown with YAML frontmatter at the top. **Installing in Claude Code:** - `~/.claude/skills//SKILL.md` — auto-loads in every session anywhere on your machine (recommended for skills you'll use across multiple projects) - `/.claude/skills//SKILL.md` — auto-loads only when working in that project (recommended for project-specific skills) Restart Claude Code or open a new session to register. **Using in Claude.ai, ChatGPT, Gemini, or other AI tools:** 1. 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